THE ANNUAL RAMADAN FRIENDSHIP DINNER 2006

Date / Time : October 5, 2006 / 6 pm

Place : Grand Ballroom, Waldorf Astoria, NYC

     

I believe that dialogue and respect for everyone within their position are the strongest shelters against any difficulties that arise from dissensions, differences, and a lack of agreement which are likely to intrude at every corner on our path to the future as a united humanity

      I firmly consider that all efforts directed toward dialogue deserve appreciation.  I appreciate the effort of the idea architects, those who are with you today and those who are absent, who have committed themselves to realizing this goal and I believe that future generations will remember them with gratitude.

~Fethullah Gülen 

   Last October, in the Grand Ballroom of the Waldorf Astoria, the Turkish Cultural Center brought together almost 900 people to share food, music, and ideas. The event, the Center's first Annual Ramadan Friendship Dinner, is perhaps the most significant event of the Turkish Cultural Center's young history: It was the largest event dedicated to intercultural and interfaith dialogue by Turkish-Americans in New York City's history. With absolute faith in the potential for people to come together and understand one another, the Center shared its vision of a peaceful future, guided by principles of love, tolerance, and mutual appreciation.

   Ramadan, the Turkish Cultural Center believed, was an appropriate time of year to hold such a gathering. The fast and its breaking are meant to be a reminder for those partaking therein of those things taken for granted from day to day – meals shared with friends and family, community, and the values that hold together its fibers.

   The fast-breaking – called Iftar – is a special event, a chance for the reunion of families and friends.  Sharing meals with acquaintances or strangers is considered a blessing.

   While the guests ate their dinners, introduced or once again enjoying Turkish cuisine, they were treated to music, distinguished speakers, and performances. After a brief welcome, Ercan Dereyayla's Turkish Music Group, composed of kanun (a Turkish zither), violin, saxophone, and keyboard, performed for the audience. The melodies, though distinctly Turkish, easily invited the sometimes mellow sometimes sharp reed tones of the saxophone.

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   Guests were treated to talks by speakers coming from diverse backgrounds. Welcome Speech by the President of Turkish Cultural Center Recep Ozkan, Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton, Omer Onhon, New York Consulate General of Turkey, Mark Mershon, Assistant Director of the FBI New York Office, Rabbi Arthur Schneier, Father Thomas Mischel, Doctor of Islamic Theology Gazi Erdem, New York State Senator Liz Krueger, and New York State Senator Carl Kruger were all in attendance.

   The Turkish Cultural Center is dedicated to bringing together people from diverse backgrounds, people who, no matter how different in upbringing, in heritage, in culture and history share in common a hope and faith that people can understand each other, accept each other, and learn from each other.

   The Turkish Cultural Center chose the night's speaker's according to these complementing values of diversity and unity. Rabbi Schneier, who has seen and suffered the consequences of extreme intolerance as a Holocaust survivor, has dedicated his life to promoting tolerance and understanding. Father Thomas Mischel, a well known Catholic Theologian, has a deep respect and love for Muslim Culture and thought. Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton, as she pointed out, hosted, along with her husband and former President Bill Clinton, the first White House celebration of the Ramadan Iftar.

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   No institution nor movement, no change nor progress is born of a vacuum.  There is no telling how things come to be, whether the moment brings idea or idea the moment, whether we go to a congregation or the congregation is where we go. But change, real change, the kind that alters society for the better, is not the consequence of accident.

   These last few decades have seen the growth of communities and organizations like Turkish Cultural Center, institutions dedicated to values of dialogue, cultural exchange, and mutual growth.

   Now, more than ever, when we are threatened by calls of misunderstanding, fear, and intolerance, we need to dedicate ourselves to dialogue. We need events like the Ramadan Friendship Dinner, celebrating what is true and common in all people and appreciating what can be learned from our differences.

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   What better place to nurture dialogue than New York City?  Here are people of all different ideas and heritages. Some have been raised in the City's diversity; others have come attracted to the richness of the City's identity.

   It shouldn't come as a surprise that a community of Turkish-Americans has set up a cultural center in Manhattan dedicated to appreciating diversity and cultural exchange.  Ottoman Istanbul was in its day what New York City is today. There, perhaps more than anywhere else, one could find people from throughout the world, coming together under the aegis of an embracing metropolis, engaged in commerce, in art, in constructive debate, in life. The Turkish Cultural Center wants to share that heritage of diversity and unity with New York City. 

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   The Turkish Cultural Center's First Annual Ramadan Friendship Dinner is a unique accomplishment. It is not just a surprisingly large gathering for such a young institution.  It is unique in aim, in nature, and in execution.

   The Turkish Cultural Center's first Annual Ramadan Friendship Dinner brought together people of diverse background, from all walks of life, of all creeds, and hosted speakers from governmental and religious institutions. The Annual Ramadan Friendship Dinner was a chance to bring these rich traditions together in the heart of a city renowned for cultural exchange and diversity of heritage.

   In a way, the event was the fruit of an experiment in community. The organizers of the event proffered invitation to close friends and associates, some Turkish, others of different background. They in turn invited friends or neighbors, coworkers and colleagues.  So, one to another, there from flourished a spontaneous community. Seated at any table could be a Turk, a Korean, fifth generation American, a Buddhist, a Muslim, a professor, a social activist, a public official, anybody. Each table an opportunity to meet, to talk, to learn. It will stand in the memory of those who attended -we hope- as a testament to the peaceful, indelible, and universal nature of community.

Fethullah Gülen's Letter,

Read on his behalf

   "Members of the Turkish Cultural Center, Distinguished guests, Ladies and Gentleman,

   I received your kind invitation to the Annual Ramadan Friendship Dinner. I would very much have liked to have been a part of this important gathering, yet unfortunately my physical discomfort did not allow me to enjoy the pleasure of your companionship.  Please accept my thanks for your kind invitation and my excuse for not being able to attend.

   With the endeavors of valued people like yourselves who have come together to establish a happy world built on universal values and set up “peace islands” of the future,  I hope that this movement will spread and carry us to [horizons] where cultures and civilizations meet and reach a consensus. It is my perception that these activities which have been put in action so far under the names of “mutual understanding and dialogue” would be better pursued if now within the framework of emphasizing and gathering around universal human virtues and respect for the position of those with different perceptions beliefs and thoughts.

   I believe that dialogue and respect for everyone within their position are the strongest shelters against any difficulties that arise from dissensions, differences, and a lack of agreement which are likely to intrude at every corner on our path to the  future as a united humanity

    I firmly consider that all efforts directed toward dialogue deserve appreciation. I appreciate the effort of the idea architects, those who are with you today and those who are absent, who have committed themselves to realizing this goal and I believe that future generations will remember them with gratitude.

   Once again I would like to thank you for your kind invitation beautiful thoughts and sincere efforts. I wish that your efforts will be noticed appreciated welcomed and acknowledged by everyone."

- Fethullah Gülen

Speakers

Hon. Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton
Hon. Omer Onhon, Consulate General of Turkey
Assistant Director of FBI Mark Mershon
Rabbi Arthur Scheiner
Father Thomas Mischel
Dr. Gazi Erdem
Hon. State Senator Liz Krueger
Hon. State Senator Carl Kruger

Performers

Ercan Dereyayla's Turkish Music Group
Whirling Dervishes

More than 800 guests had the joy to observe Ramadan Dinner.

   

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